السلام عليكم و . و
الْحَمْدُ
ِللهِ رَبِّ الْعَالَمِيْنَ وَالصَّلاَةُ
وَالسَّلاَمُ عَلَى أَشْرَفِ اْلأَنْبِيَاءِ
وَالْمُرْسَلِيْنَ وَعَلَى اَلِهِ وَصَحْبِهِ
أَجْمَعِيْنَ أَمَّا بَعْدُ
First of all, let us pray our gratitude to God, for he has
predetermine and create loving creatures, who loved and took care of us from
the moment we open our eyes in the natural world. No other creature is Mrs. ..
Prayers and peace we pray to Prophet Muhammad, his
companions, and his followers until the end of time. May we be given the
persistence of faith and ketaqwaa, ameen ..
Fathers, mothers are easy - I hope Allah blessed ....
Speaking about Mother, of course, we often hear stories
about Malin kundang cursed into stone .. for what? because he did not recognize
the figure and the poor old woman, who in fact she is the mother of Malin
Kundang ..
In this day and age, no child is truly cursed into stone ..
but I am sad, because there are many children who rebel in the elderly, the
innocent mother, said rude, lying, and even have the heart to violent behavior
in the elderly. whereas mothers with sincerity childbirth, breastfeeding and
caring for us, when we are weak.
Allah says:
(Wawashshaynaa al-insaana biwaalidayhi ummuhu wahnan
hamalat-hu 'alaa fii wahnin wafishaaluhu' ani aamayni usykur lii waliwaalidayka
ilayya almashiiru)
It means: "And We have commanded man (doing good) to
his two mother-father, his mother had conceived him in a weakened state that
increase steadily, and weaning in two years. Grateful to Me and to your fathers
two mothers, only to the husbandman your return . " (Qur'an, 31:14)
Mom was the one who took care of us since we were babies,
toddlers, adults also love until we unfortunately will not be lost. Because of
this great sacrifice, we must love our mothers, more than our love for others
..
Someone asked the Prophet, "O Messenger of Allah, who
is most entitled to service and friendship?" Prophet replied, "your
mother ... mother ... mother, then your father, and then closer to you and
closer to you." (Mutafaq'alaih).
Having said that, there are certain obligations on us as
parents:
1. Obedient and dutiful to parents. as long as they did not
rule on idolatry, and we keep our manners and kindness. (Please see Q.S Luqman,
31:15)
2. Praying for both parents. Among our prayers in the
elderly is,
"Our Lord, Forgive me my father and both my mom and all
the believers on the day of reckoning (the Day of Resurrection)." (Surah
Ibrahim, 14:41)
"..." O Lord, love them both, as they both have
educated me a little. "(Surah Al-Israa '17:24)" ...
"Hopefully salvation bestowed unto you, I will ask for
forgiveness for you my Lord. Verily, He is very good to me. (Q.S Maryam, 19:47)
"O my Lord! Forgive me, my father's mother, the person
who entered my home with all the faith and the faithful men and women. And do
not you add for those who do wrong, in addition to destruction. "(Surah
Nuh, 71:28)
3. Keeping our speech in order to remain polite, tone do not
get too high, do not shout, nor refused when ordered. If not, tell a good
reason, do not grumble (please refer to Surah Al-Israa '17:23)
Those are some guidelines we are to do good to parents, especially
my mother terhada. hopefully we, our mothers, our fathers, our brothers,
brothers in faith and piety, so be reunited in heaven of Allah SWT for His
Ridho .. Ameen Ya Ya Aalh robal 'aalamiin
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